Wednesday, September 19, 2018

What do a THANKS do in our life - 2

What do THANKS do in our life!!!

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Hello everyone in my previous update I shared a poem with you, now let's see in detail.


"THANKS" is a word which makes our path easier.


To make an easier path to, remember these points.


Points to be remembered,


1.Desire
2.Opportunity
3.Difficult times
4.Limitations
5.challenge
6.Mistakes
7.Hard work
8.Gratitude 


1. DESIRE

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  • Desire is all that makes us choose our path.
  • If we limit our path to certain things then life will be happy.
  • One should know their capacity.
  • If we have all the things which we want then life will not be that interesting.
  • so we should thank that we are not able to get what we want because it makes set a goal to achieve something.
  • If we get one what we desired for then we want another one its life. 
      DO'S
  • Always set goals.
  •  Have a clear idea on what you want.
  • Make clear plan.
  • Background work is necessary based on your goal.
  • Satisfaction is important.
  • Don't compromise.
  • Set goals which will not hurt anyone.
  • Do your work personally.
    DON'T
  • Don't travel in two paths or more than one path.  
  • Don't be lazy.
  • Don't take easy path(wrong path).
  • Don't trust everyone.  

2. OPPORTUNITY

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  • Life is full of opportunities we should identify it correctly.
  • If we don't know something then it gives us an opportunity to learn.
  • Learning is all.
  • In our daily life,we learn every day. 
      DO
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  • Identify correctly when you get an opportunity.
  • Try to learn what you don't know.
  • Listen to others then analyse yourself.
  • Utilize every single opportunity.
       DON'T 
  •  Don't neglect others words.
  • Don't be lazy to analyse everything before you do.
  •  Don't neglect an opportunity.
 Life is a learning process let's learn more .....
Waiting to share about other points,see you tomorrow.

Monday, September 17, 2018

What do a Thanks do in our life? - 1

What do a THANKS do in our life?


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Hello everyone,

How is your day? Starting a day with a beautiful smile makes your day pleasant and everything goes well.

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Today my day started like this only. Today I remembered a poem which inspired me always. Let me share this with you because we say thanks to a lot of people in many situations does it helps us in any way.

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Yes, of course when we say Sorry and Thanks to people they feel satisfied and many situations will get subtle.
Saying that with a small cute smile makes things work better.


But I learnt a different thing when I heard this poem. I felt that it will help you too. Unfortunately, I don't know who the author is if anyone knows let me know.

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.
If you did, What would there be to look forward to?


         Be thankful when you don't know something,
         for it gives you the opportunity to learn.


Be thankful for the difficulties times.
During those times you grow.


         Be thankful for your limitations,
         because they give you opportunities for improvement.


Be thankful for each new challenge,
because it will build your strength and character.


        Be thankful for your mistakes.
        They will teach you valuable lessons.


Be thankful when you're tired and weary,
because it means you've made a difference.


       It's easy to be thankful for the good things.
       A life of rich fulfilment comes to those who
       are also thankful for the setbacks.



Gratitude  can turn a negative into a positive.
Find a way to be thankful for your troubles,
and they can become your blessings.


What a poem isn't it!!!!
Let me share with a more detailed view in my next post.
This one is very simple to understand but has a lot of depth in it so let me share this in detail in my next post.

Friday, September 7, 2018

WHO AM I ? " Lion and Sage" !

Hello, everyone,

Joyful evening. How your day went? I hope your day went well.
Today I suddenly got some doubt, is there any reason for my birth?

Of course, there would be some reason but many of us or few we think in a way that there is no reason for life or I am not a worthy person to live, I am not good for anything etc.......

Here I would like to say you a story.

Once there was a lion who was very proud. It thinks that everyone is afraid of him. No one can come near to him without its permission. 


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And the Lion likes the frailness of others and enjoys its hunt. It like hunting other animals, it enjoys when others run for their lives and afraid of it. The Lion turned into a psychopath it started to prank others and enjoys the sight when other has a tearful eye and frailness. It can hear the heartbeat of the running animals and gets extreme edge enjoying. It was the daily routine of the Lion, even few animals started to go away from that forest.
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Lion got it's proud to its head and started to think that anyone should surrender before him.


One day a sage was passing through the forest. He was tired and sat under a tree, the proud lion saw him and thought that It's good to see a human after a very long time. I am also bored by frightening these animals let me play with this human. I wants to see the urge in his eyes, I would like to see how he begs me for his life. It got excited by its thoughts and immediately jumped before him.


The sage looked at the lion and stood before him. The lion was surprised to see the human-like that because it expected something opposite of it.
Lion wants to see the frightening eyes of the human so it roared in front of him even then the sage didn't run or do anything.


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Lion loosed its patience and said to the sage. Oh, human, i am very hungry right now I am going to eat you. I will rid you into pieces, your blood flows and wet this land.


The sage replied, oh lion if you are in such hungry what are you waiting for. You are always welcome to have me. I am blessed to fill your stomach at least for this day.


The lion was surprised. Now it seemed to get relaxed and wanted to know why he was not afraid of it, even it is a cruel animal.
The lion asked, before I eat you I have something to ask, will you clarify my doubt?
The sage replied if I am able to ...... I will do it.


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Then the lion asked, why you are not afraid of me. In this forest every one will ran away from me even I am in 10 feet distance and every one beg for their life but who are you? you are not afraid of me! and you are welcoming me to eat you. aren't you afraid?


The sage sat before it and said that he was a sage. He was in a search of who he was and what was the use of his birth? I was roaming from place to place by praying the God to know the answers to my questions. 


When i saw you I was not afraid because you are also a living being like me. And when you roared at me I thought that you were in a need. When you said, "you were hungry", then I realized one thing that I found the answer to my questions

1. who am i?
     I am also a living being like you but differs in a few ways. There will be a reason behind my birth for some good.


2. What was the use of my birth?
    When you said that you are going to eat me then I realized that I was born to satisfy your hunger.


 Everything has a purpose in once life. When I am hungry what I eat ! leaves, vegetables, fruits etc. But why they were grown ? to satisfy another.


Like that everything has a purpose to have a life even non-living things are helping us in our day to day life in many ways.


 So I thought that it will be my life path to fill your stomach. No matter how you will eat me because everything has a start and end, it's the circle.
 I am not worried about it because I don't know how I was born, and not worried about how it ends. Just I am satisfied that my life has a use and I am utilizing that.
 How we lead or led our life is important.
Come, my dear friend, I am ready now to fill your stomach.


Now for the first time lion got tears in its eyes and said sorry master i not hungry any more. I realize how I am leading my life, I was enjoying on others frailness. Now onwards I will eat when I am hungry I don't hurt anyone for fun.
Now master your life is not meant to fill my stomach your life is to make others realize who are like me.

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On that day on wards Lion and The sage became good friends and they started to travel from place to place where every one surprised how a human and wild animal or together. It made others listen to the words of The sage.
Moral: Realize and utilize your life in a good way. Don't waste your life.

Dear Readers, I hope you like the story. Because when I heard the story I realized something in me that till now I don't know the purpose of my life but I wanted to be a good human being until my death. It's my goal. Because I don't know what is the purpose of my birth it will come in my way one day, then I will do that until then I want to utilize my life.

The persons who think that they are useless, waste there time, wants to commit suicide, just think what you were doing until now. 


Just think When you are dead is there any one person who really miss you or remembers you or loves you forever. Everything has a start and end within that circle we want to utilize everything.

 
Don't break the circle it may lead to some other thing, complete it.

 

Wednesday, September 5, 2018

Who is the reason for all the things happening in your life?

Hello everyone,

Can you say one thing which is controlling your life? It will be the only one reason behind your all emotions and the life-changing factor. Can you guess!!!!


It's your Heart.

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 Yes, absolutely it the only reason behind everything in our life.
I would like to share a phrase which is said by my dear friend.


"Always you should win, not anything".





 

These phrases always inspire me when I am lazy or when I want to step back from any situation.
Read the phrase again "Always you should win, not anything".
Here what "anything" means ....






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Anything =  Anger
                      Tension
                      Frustration
                      Greed
                      Jealousy
                      Sadness
                      Bad habits
                      Negative thoughts etc......


Let me give an example.....

1. My neighbor bought a new car. If your Heart says Ah! he bought a new car but I don't have.

Here your jealousy has won you.
If you think in another way...

1.a My neighbor bought a new car. Let me greet him.
Here you will win. Because your Jealous didn't come out.





2. My sister has taken my dress. How could she do that?
Here you are not able to Tolerate or Share what is yours. But think once who has taken your dress? your sister, is it a wrong one!

If you think in another way....

2.a My sister has taken my dress it should fit her.
Here you won.


In this phrase "Always you should win, not anything".


 YOU = character and attitude


In any situation give a few seconds to analyze yourself. If your anger or lie or any other emotion wants to win you don't let it do that.


These all things are related to your Heart and Mind. Make the both to think in one way.




Always Make the Two Birds sing one song. 


  • Never forget who you are ! You means your Character.
  • Never fall for your negative emotions.
  • Be conscious on what you are doing.
  • Never follow others words blankly.
  • What ever you see or listen is not True. Analyze the situation by yourself.
  • Be honest.
  • Stick to one decision you make. 
  • Control your emotions.
  • Don't take any decisions while you are anger. 
  •  Never let your HEART to take wrong decisions. 

Tuesday, September 4, 2018

Bloom your day and others as well.

Hi friends,

How is your day? In my first post i said that start a day with a Fresh mind . I gave you few suggestions in that, may be few persons thought that those suggestions are related to family persons,but what about the persons who are living single.

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 Of course you have your friends with you.You can say Good Morning with a smile etc..... Is that enough to have a good mood to start your day? Let me share my day which will be useful for others who want a different experience.

A usual morning but different for me because even before i wake up there are few lovable persons waiting for me to say a hello to them...

we usually do something together which makes us happy.
After finishing my routines, when i open my door there i get a pleasant breeze with a baby day light on my face,

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 in a sparkle of moment i realize that there are others waiting for me, immediately what i do is !!!! Greeting them with a smile which makes us happy to wish each other. With my favorite beverage i sit before them and i will play some Melody music which we love to listen. With that moment we start to enjoy the music as well as a deep relation which we have internally.
We don't speak with each other because my fellow partners can't talk but speaks with me.

Oh are you thinking how is it possible? Yes we can know each other feelings when we are connected with hearts. LOVE HAS NO LANGUAGE. The only thing is we want to spend some time with them and concentrate on them.

Are you thinking that "What !!!, you said that, " you will say about the persons who are living single but again you are saying about family persons". Yes coming to your point. Here till now i didn't mention about my fellow friends.

The friends who are waiting for me are my PLANTS which i planted.

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Yes friends we think that we are carving for some love which we are not able to get from others, but have you ever thought that there are others who want our LOVE AND ATTENTION.

Like pet animals even tress and plant need our love and care. Many of us like to do Gardening and many of them are doing. Though we are doing that. Are we doing that heart-fully is the question. Where ever we live , may be in independent houses or apartments, we have seen many of them are growing plants in there available space. But are we paying attention on it or just supplying them their food.

WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE ON SUPPLYING NECESSARY FOOD AND TAKING CARE?

Aren't they both same. We think that we are giving them (plants) or taking care by providing necessary Cockpit,soil,fertilizers,grow booster,water,sunlight etc.... Is that enough for a plant to grow ? Yes it is enough with timing management for a plant to grow. we think that the plant grow healthy with all those supplies.

But here we are forgetting some thing that those are also living being like us which needs not only food supplies to grow but needs love and care to be more healthy.

For example the food we eat while watching T.V.

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When we are not concentrating on the food we eat we don't get the value of it ,we are only feeding our stomach which doesn't give complete health to us.

LET'S DO SOME EXPERIMENT IF YOU NEED LIVE PROOF

Take 3 plants and plant it in 3 different container and do what i say,but you what to do it daily.

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1.
  • First select one plant and talk to it daily , 
  • Talk to it as a friend.
  • speak good words.
  • Wish it daily.
  • pour water to it .
  • Take care with necessary food and fertilizers.
  • Share your feelings with it. 
  • Give it a music therapy. Light and melody music everyday.
  • Listen with it,spend time it.
 2.
  •  Next select second plant
  • Don't talk to that plant but feed with all necessary food.
  • Feed it, let it have everything but don't communicate with. 
3.
  • Now select Third plant.
  • Feed with all necessary supplies.
  • Communicate with it but shout at it.
  • Say harsh words to it.
  • Say all sad thing with it.
Now see the difference in just One or Two months
1st plant will be Healthy,you can see the difference in their leafs and blossom of flowers or fruits or vegetables.

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2nd plant you will see a normal growth.

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3rd plant you will it in almost dead position.

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How and Why it happened to those plants!!
Just analyze your experiment
1. On first plant you have shown love and affection towards it and treated it equally with you.
2 .On second one you didn't show any love but paid only attention so it has grown in its way.
3. On third one there is more negative impact on it and it sees everything you have done with
 other two plants so it felt very bad and got hurt so it led to death.

There are many experiments done on plants it has proven that the love shown by a person will effect the plants growth and the hatred of a person towards the plant also shows the effect in its growth.

MUSICAL THERAPY


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 gives best result in its growth, but loud music is not preferable for plants growth. A therapy with Melody music, soft music gives best results.

The persons who feel that they are alone, no friend or to share there feeling and depressed due to there situations

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 just remember that there are other persons or living creatures who want the same as you.
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Just make them feel comfortable give hope with your words and caring.

Start a new day. Grow a plant with your love and care ,when the seed grows it gives you happiness unknowing, when it grows you will also grow from inside.
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Bloom your day and you can bloom others with your love.Just start your day with good hope.
ALL THE BEST FRIENDS.

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Healthy life is in your hands. Make your day BLOOM and Others too.


Monday, September 3, 2018

Can you take weed out of you! Why not ? you can do it....

Hi friends,

How did your day started? Is it a day with fresh start with fresh mind. Have you followed my tips or suggestions which i gave you yesterday.

Today my topic is Can you take weed out of you ! Why not ? You can do it....


 First of all i would like to ask you some thing . What is 'weed'?  can we simplify it.
 WEED i mean to say is the negative thoughts which we have in us.

Can we get rid of it from us! If you believe me then follow or think about what i am going to ask.


  1. Do you think that all humans have only positive attitude?
  2. All the leaders in the world are too good that's why they are leaders!
  3. All successful people followed other great people saying!
  4. One is famous or celebrities because they have only positive thinking !
  5. All gurujies  or preachers have more positive energy that's why people are attracted to them and listens to there sayings.
  6. The people who are in higher category than you are lucky enough that's why they are in higher category.
  7. The people who has taken the weeds from them are in successful positions.
  8. Do you think that you have talent but not lucky enough to be better than your friend or neighbor? 
 Is your answer "YES" for my questions.

Oh God ! then you are in great trouble!!!!!

Yes i really mean it. I am not making you to get afraid. Let's get to my point.

Think once is it possible for any person to have only positive mind or positive thoughts, definitely a big NO every one or every living creature in the world has both the POSITIVE and NEGATIVE equally .

But why i am not success in my life or not able to achieve what i want,,,,, is just because of the way we think.
Many of us think that i am better than my friend or a known person... I scored better than him in my college days, i was the topper of the school.... i was a admirable kid by others....  EVEN then i am not in a position better than the others or my friend.

Have you understood what i am saying ?????
Just stop comparing with others. No one has a WEED in them ... All have the same things but only one differs is the way we think, how we plan ? how we present some thing ?How we are concentrating on us than others. And stop hearing other persons teasing or bullying.
Stop giving importance to others who always has a ear and nose on others doors.

Just think about yourself,your loved once and start to concentrate on what you know?

 What you can do?
What are you lacking at?
What you want?
What are you interested  in?
What are the obstacles in your way?
What do you want in your life?

Just think in that way to achieve what you want. There is NO WEED in anyone.



WEED OUT OF YOU AND HAVE A SEED IN YOUR THOUGHTS IT WILL GROW IN THE WAY AS YOU WANT.

Sunday, September 2, 2018

How to start your day with fresh mind ?


Hi Friends,

I would like to share my view " How to start your day with fresh mind " ?



It is possible to start your day with fresh and peace mind , All you need to do is simple practice after waking up from the bed.

Just for tomorrow follow these steps
  • When you feel that you are awake first don't open your eyes stay calm for few minutes.
  • Don't think of anything.
  • Now open your eyes with a small tiny little smile on your beautiful lips.
  • Now see your beloved one who will be sleeping beside you.
  • Then have a gentle kiss on their forehead
  • Then do the same to your kids or your loved one.
  • Have some fresh cool drink or Tea or coffee  as you like.
Here i would like note you some thing not to do..... 
  •  don't wake up in a hurry.
  •  don't wake up suddenly. 
  •  don't think about yesterday things.
  •  Never shout on anyone early in the morning even if  they had done anything wrong.
  •  Try to speak in low voice.
  •  Try to pay attention on others sayings it makes them  happy too.
  •  Try to see your outside world because you all know that  nature is the most beautiful art which fills our heart with joy.